I am having a ROUGH weekend. 

Growing pains are awful.


I am having a ROUGH weekend.

Growing pains are awful.

“Put it down. Put it away. Put it in a notebook, but get it out of yourself. Away, so you can’t curl up with it anymore.”
-- Girl, Interrupted (via amazingrosaliaisnotonfire)

I feel the depression creeping in again. Maybe I should get a journal to try and combat it.


My Dad asked me last night why I carry my 1911 in the house, what am I afraid of? I looked him straight in the eye and said, “The Goddamn Decepticons.” He laughed, I laughed, the toaster laughed, I shot the toaster. It was a good time.







I need feminism because most men’s restrooms still aren’t equipped with baby changing stations. As someone who was married to a man who had sole custody of his young son, I’m hyperaware that feminism means EQUALITY, not female superiority. Feminism should and does support a man’s right to be as much of a parent to his child(ren) as any mother is allowed/expected to be.

This is a constant problem for Mr. Tea and myself. We’ve got twins, so even though I can change one kid on the change table in the ladies’ room, he’s left standing sort of awkwardly in the lobby with a messy child while I change one, come back, and get the other.

Nobody’s suggesting that men aren’t parents, so the lack of change tables goes well beyond ‘gender role reinforcing’ and straight into ‘ridiculous’.

My dad actually almost got kicked out of a mall once for changing my brother in the womens room of a mall. The only reason they didn’t call the cops on him was because the ladies in the room supported him.

I’d never even considered this but I support it

Our mall had family bathrooms and a separate “nursing room” with a coffee table and lounge chairs for breast feeding mothers

Wow, that’s really cool. There’s nothin like that in Illinois.

Identity theft is not a joke Jim!

(Source: thedrphilshow)